Self Defense for Children: Tackle the Subject Early, Before They Need It

The news report of a child being abducted sends chills down every parent’s back. Children are so inherently vulnerable. It is a parent’s job to keep his or her children safe but parents are increasingly aware that they are unable to control every situation or keep their children safe from every ill. As disconcerting as that fact is for parents, though, it is doubly unsettling for children, who need a sense of security in a confusing and dangerous world.

How do we, then, give our children the knowledge and skills they need to fend off an attacker without making them feel insecure and vulnerable?

One thing they need to know is who is allowed to take them to or from places such as school, church etc. Clear boundaries will help them to know when boundaries are being crossed and help them be confident enough to stand up to would-be attackers or abductors.

Also, honor their feelings when they are uncomfortable in a situation. This will help them to recognize when they have a bad feeling about something and take steps to avoid potentially dangerous situations.

Finally, teach them basic physical self defense techniques such as yelling to get attention, running towards a crowd, or using their bodies as deadweight to avoid being taken to another location.

Begin with basic concepts as soon as children leave babyhood and gain a measure of independence. Increase in complexity as children mature and are better able to understand.